{"id":988,"date":"2020-04-06T15:34:18","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T12:34:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/?p=988"},"modified":"2020-04-06T15:34:55","modified_gmt":"2020-04-06T12:34:55","slug":"yalan-soylemeyin-dogruyu-soyleyemiyorsaniz-susun-yalan-soylemeye-baslarsaniz-yok-olmaya-baslarsiniz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/?p=988","title":{"rendered":"Yalan S\u00f6ylemeyin. Do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yleyemiyorsan\u0131z, susun. Yalan S\u00f6ylemeye Ba\u015flarsan\u0131z Yok Olmaya Ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Yalan s\u00f6ylemeyin. Do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yleyemiyorsan\u0131z, susun. Yalan s\u00f6ylemeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anda yok olmaya mahkum olursunuz. \u00c7izim 1, yalanc\u0131lar\u0131n, do\u011frucular\u0131n ve uyduruk\u00e7ular\u0131n i\u015f hayat\u0131ndaki durumunu ve say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermektedir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yap\u0131labilecek en ak\u0131ll\u0131ca davran\u0131\u015f, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc gruba girmek ve devaml\u0131 olarak orada kalmakt\u0131r. Bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z herkesin hayat\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn: \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131nda do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yleyen o kadar az ki\u015fi var ki! Onlardan biri olmak, sizi \u00f6zel biri haline getirir. Her zaman do\u011fruyu s\u00f6ylemek, cesaret isteyen bir i\u015ftir. Do\u011frusu, b\u00f6yle bir \u00fcne sahip olmak, zaman al\u0131r. \u00c7evrenizde do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yleyen biri olarak \u00fcn yapman\u0131z i\u00e7in, kendinizi s\u0131k s\u0131k ate\u015f alt\u0131nda” kan\u0131tlamak zorunda kal\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z. Ama ula\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sonu\u00e7 \u00e7abalar\u0131n\u0131za de\u011fecektir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u015f hayat\u0131nda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z ki\u015filer \u00e7o\u011funlukla uyduruk\u00e7u veya palavrac\u0131d\u0131r. Pek s\u0131k rastlar\u0131z bu tiplere. Ger\u00e7e\u011fi biraz allay\u0131p pullay\u0131p sunmaktan ho\u015flan\u0131rlar. Tabii bunun \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fc de ki\u015fiden ki\u015fiye de\u011fi\u015fir. Durumu ve kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini tartarak ger\u00e7e\u011fi ay\u0131rt edebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Uyduruk\u00e7ular \u00e7e\u015fit \u00e7e\u015fittir. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 size sadece duymak istediklerinizi anlat\u0131r. \u00d6tekiler aras\u0131nda, hayal aleminde ya\u015fayanlar, mangalda k\u00fcl b\u0131rakmayanlar, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 iyimserler, nabza g\u00f6re \u015ferbet verenler ve basit birer mahalle dedikoducusu olanlar vard\u0131r.
Ayr\u0131ca, pek ender olarak, i\u015f hayat\u0131nda g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc k\u0131rpmadan yalan s\u00f6yleyenlere de rastlan\u0131r.  Asl\u0131nda, bunlar\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n az olmas\u0131 ba\u015fka bir nedene dayan\u0131r. B\u00f6yleleri genellikle piyasadan \u00e7ar\u00e7abuk silinip yok olurlar. Yalanc\u0131lar\u0131n i\u015f d\u00fcnyas\u0131nda ayakta kalmalar\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Kalabilenlerse ancak a\u015fa\u011f\u0131 mevkilerde g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcrler.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00c7izim 2 y\u00f6netimde yer alan yalanc\u0131lar\u0131n azl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermektedir. \u0130lk g\u00fcnlerde onlar\u0131 tan\u0131mak hayli zordur. Bir kez tan\u0131y\u0131nca da yapabilece\u011finiz en iyi \u015fey, onlardan uzak durmakt\u0131r. Bunlar yaln\u0131zca i\u015f hayat\u0131nda k\u00f6t\u00fc bir isim sahibi olmakla kalmaz, kendilerine yakla\u015fanlar\u0131n adlar\u0131n\u0131 da lekelerler. \u0130\u015fin k\u00f6t\u00fcs\u00fc, hepsi olmasa da, yalanc\u0131lar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu, ba\u015fkalar\u0131na oldu\u011fu kadar kendilerine de yalan s\u00f6yler. \u00c7o\u011fu, bu korkun\u00e7 hastal\u0131\u011fa yakaland\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan habersiz ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr. \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131nda, uyduruk\u00e7ular\u0131n oldu\u011fu gibi, yalanc\u0131lar\u0131n da birka\u00e7 t\u00fcr\u00fc vard\u0131r. Patolojik yalanc\u0131lar, yalan s\u00f6ylemeyi huy haline getirmi\u015f yalanc\u0131lar, sadece bask\u0131 alt\u0131nda yalan s\u00f6yleyenler, arada s\u0131rada k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck yalanlara ba\u015fvuranlar, komplocu yalanc\u0131lar bunlar aras\u0131nda say\u0131labilir. Her grup, yalanlar\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7erli g\u00f6stermek, a\u00e7\u0131klamak, hatta b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenmek i\u00e7in ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 y\u00f6ntemlere ba\u015f vurur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130\u015f hayat\u0131nda kimsenin d\u00fcr\u00fcst olmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini savunan yayg\u0131n ve yanl\u0131\u015f bir g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f vard\u0131r. Asl\u0131nda i\u015fadamlar\u0131 di\u011fer insanlara oranla daha do\u011fru, daha d\u00fcr\u00fcst ki\u015filerdir. Kendi tercihleri sonucu de\u011fildir bu! \u00d6yle olmak zorundad\u0131rlar. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde, i\u015fadamlar\u0131, halk, \u00f6zel kurulu\u015flar, b\u00fcrolar, komiteler, sendikalar, gazeteciler, hisse sahipleri, t\u00fcketiciler, politikac\u0131lar, iman sahipleri, bask\u0131 gruplar\u0131, ele\u015ftirmenler, aileleri ve rakipleri taraf\u0131ndan s\u00fcrekli izlenir. Dahas\u0131, d\u00fcrt\u00fcl\u00fcr, incelenir, g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irilir, ele\u015ftirilir, sorguya \u00e7ekilir, kontrol edilir, bilgisayarlara kaydedilir, su\u00e7lan\u0131r, s\u0131n\u0131rland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, emir verilir, pazarl\u0131\u011fa giri\u015filir, ara\u015ft\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r, d\u00fczenlenir, g\u00f6zalt\u0131nda tutulup tekrar tekrar incelenirler. Ve i\u015fadamlar\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fct\u00fcn bu insanlar\u0131 memnun etmesine olanak yoktur.
Yalanc\u0131y\u0131 tan\u0131mlamak kolayd\u0131r. Ger\u00e7e\u011fe sayg\u0131s\u0131 olmayan ve s\u0131k s\u0131k do\u011frudan uzakla\u015fan ki\u015fidir o. Do\u011fruyu i\u015fine geldi\u011finde, ya da k\u0131rk y\u0131lda bir akl\u0131na esti\u011finde s\u00f6yler.
Uyduruk\u00e7uyu tan\u0131mlamak da kolayd\u0131r. O, ger\u00e7e\u011fe sayg\u0131 duyan, ama ger\u00e7ekle yalan aras\u0131nda uzanan o geni\u015f ve gri alanda bulunma hakk\u0131n\u0131 kendinde g\u00f6ren kimsedir. Uyduruk\u00e7u ger\u00e7e\u011fi geni\u015fletir. Biraz da e\u011fip b\u00fcker. Ya da biraz daha fazla…
Yalanc\u0131 ve uyduruk\u00e7ular\u0131 tan\u0131mlayan pek \u00e7ok s\u00f6z vard\u0131r. Ama, daima do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yleyen  ki\u015fiyi tan\u0131mlayacak bir s\u00f6ze rastlam\u0131yoruz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu da, do\u011fru ve d\u00fcr\u00fcst ki\u015filerin ne kadar ender bulundu\u011funu kan\u0131tlam\u0131yor mu?

Kaynak: Conarroe \/ Y\u00f6netimde 32 Kural <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Yalan s\u00f6ylemeyin. Do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yleyemiyorsan\u0131z, susun. Yalan s\u00f6ylemeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z anda yok olmaya mahkum olursunuz. \u00c7izim 1, yalanc\u0131lar\u0131n, do\u011frucular\u0131n ve uyduruk\u00e7ular\u0131n i\u015f hayat\u0131ndaki durumunu ve say\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermektedir. Yap\u0131labilecek en ak\u0131ll\u0131ca davran\u0131\u015f, \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc gruba girmek ve devaml\u0131 olarak orada kalmakt\u0131r. Bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131z herkesin hayat\u0131n\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131racakt\u0131r. Bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn: \u0130\u015f hayat\u0131nda do\u011fruyu s\u00f6yleyen o kadar az ki\u015fi var ki! Onlardan […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[20],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=988"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":992,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/988\/revisions\/992"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=988"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=988"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=988"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}