{"id":125,"date":"2012-08-28T22:31:15","date_gmt":"2012-08-28T19:31:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/?p=125"},"modified":"2014-10-28T00:26:50","modified_gmt":"2014-10-27T22:26:50","slug":"insanlarla-iletisimin-102-kurali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/?p=125","title":{"rendered":"\u0130nsanlarla ileti\u015fimin \u201c102\u201d kural\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. Zay\u0131f yanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

2. Sab\u0131rl\u0131 olun.<\/p>\n

3. Belirsizliklerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n.<\/p>\n

4. Sizi dinleyenlerin anlayaca\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6zc\u00fckler se\u00e7in.<\/p>\n

5. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc almaktan korkmay\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

6. Sinirlerinize hakim olun.<\/p>\n

7. \u015eaka yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman iyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/p>\n

8. \u0130kna yoluna gidin.<\/p>\n

9. Konunuzu iyi bilin.<\/p>\n

10. Sorulara kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verin.<\/p>\n

—\u0130\u015fin Felsefesi—<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

11. Ayr\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 an\u0131msamadan s\u00f6ze ba\u015flamay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

12. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakilerin tepkilerine dikkat edin.<\/p>\n

13. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden konu\u015fmay\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

14. \u0130nsanlar duymak istediklerini duyarlar.<\/p>\n

15. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n heveslerini k\u0131rmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

16. Gereksiz ele\u015ftirilerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

17. Kaybetmeyi bilin.<\/p>\n

18. Makul olun. Duyarl\u0131 olun.<\/p>\n

19. Olumlu bir ton kullan\u0131n.<\/p>\n

20. S\u00fcrekli dert yanan biri olmay\u0131n<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

21. G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015flerinizi ba\u015fkalar\u0131na zorla kabul ettirmeye \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

22. Esnek olun..<\/p>\n

—Davran\u0131\u015f Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131—<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

23. G\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc yapmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

24. Konu\u015fmaya herkesi kat\u0131n.<\/p>\n

25. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakini b\u00fct\u00fcn dikkatinizle dinleyin.<\/p>\n

26. A\u011fz\u0131n\u0131za bireyler almak al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan vazge\u00e7in.<\/p>\n

27. Ayaklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 masalar\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcne koymay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

28. Sesinizi duyurun.<\/p>\n

29. \u0130\u015f yeme\u011finde basit yemekler \u0131smarlamay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

30. Biri sizinle konu\u015furken i\u015finizle me\u015fgul olmay\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

31. Y\u00fcz ifadenizi kontrol edin.<\/p>\n

32. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakilerin sinirini bozmay\u0131n<\/strong><\/span>. <\/strong><\/p>\n

33. Ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmemeyi unutmay\u0131n<\/span>. <\/strong><\/p>\n

34. Birisi konu\u015furken, ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla f\u0131s\u0131lda\u015fmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

35. Yerinde, duramayan bir olmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n.<\/p>\n

36. Duman makinesi olmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

37. Birisi konu\u015furken, ka\u011f\u0131tlara \u00e7iziktirmekten vazge\u00e7in.<\/p>\n

38. Rahat oturun.<\/p>\n

—Teknikler—<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

39. Ayn\u0131 s\u00f6zc\u00fckleri dilinize dolamaktan vazge\u00e7in<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

40. S\u00f6z\u00fc ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n a\u011fz\u0131ndan kapmay\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>. <\/span><\/p>\n

41. \u00c7ift anlaml\u0131 s\u00f6zc\u00fcklerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n.<\/p>\n

42. Ne zaman susmak gerekti\u011fini bilin.<\/p>\n

43. S\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir tonla bitirin.<\/p>\n

44. Kendi kendinizi baltalamay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

45. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fclemeyin<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

46. A\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131c\u0131 ibarelerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n.<\/p>\n

47. \u00d6\u011f\u00fctledi\u011finiz \u015feyleri kendiniz de uygulay\u0131n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

48. Sorunuzu sorduktan sonra, susun ve dinleyin.<\/p>\n

49. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakilere zaman tan\u0131y\u0131n<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

50. Herkesin anlayabilece\u011fi s\u00f6zc\u00fckler kullan\u0131n.<\/p>\n

51. Konu\u015fmadan \u00f6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn<\/span><\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

52. Sessizlik yararl\u0131 olabilir. Susmas\u0131n\u0131 da \u00f6\u011frenin.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

53. \u0130\u015f konusunda \u00f6ncelik verin.<\/p>\n

54. insanlara ne yapacaklar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmek merak\u0131ndan vazge\u00e7in.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

—Telefon—<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

55. Telefonda \u00f6nce kendinizi tan\u0131t\u0131n.<\/p>\n

56. Ahizenin i\u00e7ine do\u011fru konu\u015fun.<\/p>\n

57. Telefonda konu\u015furken bir \u015fey yemeyin.<\/p>\n

58. Do\u011fru numaray\u0131 \u00e7evirdi\u011finizden emin olun.<\/p>\n

59. Telefonda g\u00fcr\u00fclt\u00fc yapmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

60. \u0130leti\u015fimin \u201cAlt\u0131n Kural\u0131\u201d n\u0131 utmay\u0131n: Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zdakinin s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc kesmeyin.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

61. D\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceli davran\u0131n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

62. Telefona \u00f6ncelik vermeyin<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

63. Arada bir \u015feyler s\u00f6yleyerek dinledi\u011finizi belli edin.<\/p>\n

64. \u00c7evrenizdekilerin konu\u015fman\u0131z\u0131 b\u00f6lmelerine g\u00f6z yummay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

65. Dikkatinizi da\u011f\u0131tmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

66. Telefon hatt\u0131n\u0131n bo\u015f olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kontrol edin.<\/p>\n

67. Kendinizi d\u00fc\u015flere kapt\u0131rmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

68. Kars\u0131n\u0131zdakilere konu\u015fma f\u0131rsat\u0131 tan\u0131y\u0131n<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

69. Telefon etme nedeninizi belirtin.<\/p>\n

70. Sesinizin tonu \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n

—Nas\u0131l Yazmal\u0131.?—<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

71. Yazd\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z hemen unutulmaz.<\/p>\n

72. Tertipli olun.<\/p>\n

73. A\u011fdal\u0131 s\u00f6zc\u00fckler kullanmay\u0131n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

74. K\u00f6t\u00fc haberleri yumu\u015fak dille iletin.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

75. Yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 hi\u00e7 de\u011filse bir kez okuyun.<\/p>\n

76. Al\u00e7akg\u00f6n\u00fcll\u00fc olun.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

77. Gereksiz \u015feyler yazmaktan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n<\/span>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

78. Adlar\u0131, unvanlar\u0131 ve bas harfleri do\u011fru kullanmaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n

79. Tembellik etmeyin, \u00fc\u015fenmeyin.<\/p>\n

80. S\u00f6zc\u00fckleri s\u00fcslemekten ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n.<\/p>\n

81. Yaz\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 okuyun, neden ve kimden s\u00f6z etti\u011finizi anlamas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

82. Yazd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015finin g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc korkutmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n

83. Birine cevap yazarken, yeni sorulara yol a\u00e7may\u0131n.<\/p>\n

84. Yaz\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, olumlu, g\u00f6n\u00fcl al\u0131c\u0131 bir c\u00fcmleyle tamamlaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n

—Nezaket Kurallar—<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

85. Size ak\u0131l dan\u0131\u015f\u0131lmad\u0131k\u00e7a \u00f6\u011f\u00fct vermeyin.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

86. Durumunuzdan s\u00fcrekli yak\u0131n\u0131p durmay\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

87. Konu\u015fman\u0131n tad\u0131n\u0131 ka\u00e7\u0131rmay\u0131n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

88. Gereksiz yere z\u0131tl\u0131k yaratmay\u0131n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

89. Adil davran\u0131n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

90. Her yerde ve her zaman s\u00f6zc\u00fcl\u00fck g\u00f6revini \u00fcstlenmeyin<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

91. B\u00f6b\u00fcrlenmeyin.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

92. Ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n can\u0131n\u0131 s\u0131kacak esprilerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

93. \u0130nsanlar\u0131 terslemeyin.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

94. \u00d6l\u00fc gibi durmaktan vazge\u00e7in.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

95. Her soruya kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k tekmil vermekten ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

96. \u00d6nemli ki\u015filerin adlar\u0131n\u0131 her laf\u0131n aras\u0131na s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmay\u0131 huy edinmeyin.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

97. Oldu\u011funuz gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcn.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

98. \u00d6nyarg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa vurmay\u0131n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

99. Y\u00fcksekten atmay\u0131n<\/span><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

100. Herkesin i\u015fine burnunuzu sokmay\u0131n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

101. \u00dcst\u00fcnl\u00fck sa\u011flamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n.<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

—Son S\u00f6z—.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

102. Dinlemesini bilin<\/span><\/strong>. + Mesai arkada\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n i\u015f s\u00fcre\u00e7lerindeki \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 hepsini siz yapm\u0131\u015f gibi yans\u0131tarak emek h\u0131rs\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile kendinizi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrmeyin.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

1. Zay\u0131f yanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n. 2. Sab\u0131rl\u0131 olun. 3. Belirsizliklerden ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n. 4. Sizi dinleyenlerin anlayaca\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6zc\u00fckler se\u00e7in. 5. \u0130nsanlar\u0131n g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fc almaktan korkmay\u0131n. 6. Sinirlerinize hakim olun. 7. \u015eaka yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z zaman iyi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn. 8. \u0130kna yoluna gidin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[20],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=125"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":752,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/125\/revisions\/752"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=125"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=125"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aslantozcan.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=125"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}